I respectfully disagree with you on that point. Virtually all my friends in b-school met serious girlfriends there, and it looks like a few of them could lead to marriage. And it’s the type of setting where my strengths don’t come out. School, on the other hand, is where I shine and can leverage my strengths to attract women.
I can only speak for myself, but I very rarely meet women I have sometehing in common with, at a club or bar
Also, don’t take it personal if she’s not interested in talking to you. Whenever my friends and I go out to clubs, we’re there to have a couple drinks, dance and just have fun. So, whenever a guy does try to hit on us, we just answer his question and just go back to doing whatever we were doing. It doesn’t matter if you’re sweet and funny – it’s a pain to talk when the music is extremely loud and we’re not interested in hooking up with anyone. Plus, if a couple creeps come and hit on us and you come up to us, we’re gonna treat you as if you were a creep. Of course, not all girls are like us, but it’s quite obvious when a girl is trying to get laid I think.
Lounges may be a bit better to mingle but still, talk to girls during the day. I think they will be a bit more friendly.
The key is to do it in a non-awkward way, which can be tough
You have to be an asshole. It’s not something to be proud about, but if you want the girl or get a girls attention, you need to break her down. For example. Say you go to Trader Joe’s like mentioned above. Walk over to a girl point at her cart and tell her if she eats half the food in there she is going to get fat. Is it a rude thing to do? Yes. If you aren’t very attractive will she taser you? Yes. But if you’re at least decent looking and say if confidently you will have her engaged with you and interested in what else you want to say. Follow up with telling her to put her grocery’s back and just focusing on cooking for you. Something like that. Good looking girls get complements from creeps 24/7 so take her down a peg with a playful tease.
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After you get the small talk out of the way, try to find out what interests them and ask some questions about whatever their stupid hobbies are. Let them do all the talking and while they’re talking keep thinking of questions to ask. Also, when you’re talking to girl don’t be afraid to disagree with them on a topic, it makes things more interesting. If you’re just standing there holding your drink and agreeing with everything they say then they’ll prob just get bored and eventually leave. I’m not saying nit-pick or argue every stupid thing they say because lets face it, almost everything they say is stupid, but if they make an airhead comment kind of tease them for it. When done right it really breaks the ice and shows that you’re not afraid to speak up. The average high-finance professional is much smarter and cultured then these superficial bimbos out in the clubs these days so it can sometimes be hard to find common interests right away, especially when your job is a significant part of your life. I used this technique extensively as an engineering major at my non-target party school, which teemed with bimbo sorostitutes. If a chemE major can use this technique on a sorostitute who’s a LEADERSHIP MAJOR, taking only 4 classes and struggling with her “college algebra” class (= hs algebra 2 lol) then so can you. You’re smarter, wittier and more successful, use 