Start by relaxing for a few seconds to see if you can leave the clothespin on for a minute. You can leave the clothespin on for longer if you like, maybe up to 15 or 20 minutes.
Like with pinching, when you remove the clothespin, your partner feels the sensation. The longer the clothespins are left on, the bigger the sensation when they’re removed. The nipples are usually tender after, and sometimes it feels good to stroke them with a feather or rub them with an ice cube.
10. Using Nipple Clamps
They work like clothespins do, but many have extra features. Nipple clamps create a sensation of slight pain and pleasure at the same time. When worn for a few minutes, the nipple area starts to numb. As with pinching and removing clothespins, the sensation happens when the clamps are removed.
It’s easier to adjust the pressure applied with nipple clamps than it is with clothespins. One type of clamps look like tweezers and come with a metal ring that moves up and down the arm of the clamps to adjust how tightly they grip the nipple, from mild pressure to intense pinching. Some nipple clamps include an attached vibrator that creates a vibrating sensation on the nipples while they are being clamped. You could also touch a regulator vibrator to a regular nipple clamp to achieve a similar effect.
11. Caressing
Start caressing or massaging near but not on the nipple directly. Apply different types of pressure. You might want to use circular motions. You can caress close to the nipple without touching it to tease the nipple before you begin to touch it. Once you start touching the nipple, you can vary your movement from slow to fast.
Caressing and massaging are good for the whole breast area, not just the nipple. Tell your guy that you enjoy it (if you do) when he fondles your entire breasts. Some women prefer light attention to the breasts during foreplay and JSwipe how to message someone on others prefer a rougher experience approaching orgasm. Also note that your breasts might be too sensitive to any type of touch depending on your ovulation cycle.
12. Using Hot and Cold
Play with different temperatures on the nipples by rubbing them with an ice cube for a few seconds. You can apply heat by dripping hot wax from a candle on the nipples. Apply some of these same techniques for oral sex to your nipples for a new experience.
Nipples are filled with nerve endings that make them extremely responsive to touch. When touched, they fill with blood and can tolerate stronger stimulation the closer to orgasm a person is. So the key is to start slowly with nipple play and gradually increase the intensity. Most people prefer to be warmed up first.
The areola is also a sensitive area. In fact, it’s often more sensitive than the nipple is. The most sensitive area is the upper part between 10 and 2 o’clock. So, when engaging in nipple play, pay attention to this area too by kissing, licking and blowing on it.
The size of the breast doesn’t determine nipple sensitivity, which is the reason many guys get pleasure from nipple play, too. Not all guys like nipple play, but the ones who do go gaga for it. The key is to talk with your man to see if he likes it.
As you can see, you and your man can have fun by adding nipple play to your sex life. You might prefer achieving orgasm through genital stimulation, but having this additional variety provides a fun change of pace.